Category Archives: Hiking
When I was a child, my mother — an only slightly-recovered hippie — was a health nut. At least I thought she was a health nut. I spent my childhood thinking, “When I have kids, I will let them drink Kool Aid and put Twinkies in their lunch boxes!” I was tired of peanut butter and honey on whole wheat bread, sliced apples, and plain potato chips in my school lunch. I envied other kids’ white bread and jelly, sweetened applesauce cups, and the lovely, perfectly-formed, hermetically-sealed chocolate cupcakes with a swirl of white icing adorning the top. I was certain she was skewed in her perspectives and couldn’t wait until I could make my own decisions about what I ate.
Given my own experiences, I have been quite surprised about my own children’s apparent buy-in to my own health nuttiness, which has MORE than raised any bar my mom ever set.
Here are a few things from just this past week:
I tend to worry that when my children see commercials for junk food on TV, they’ll be swayed. It turns out that concern is misplaced, at least with my six-year-old, Audrey. Upon seeing a McDonald’s commercial the other day, she remarked, “The box for a Happy Meal is more nutritious than the food inside!!” This made me laugh! And, NO, I have never said anything like that. As far as I know, this is her own analysis.
- My 15-year-old, Ethan, went home with a friend after church on Sunday. Upon his return, he reported to me, “Guess where we went for lunch after church? Taco Bell. Jacob became very exasperated with me because I didn’t understand the menu and he had to explain the whole thing to me.” We couldn’t remember the last time Ethan had been to Taco Bell, which in his own mind, ironically enough, is even an even more nefarious food-offender than McDonald’s. “I had a Burrito Supreme. It wasn’t very good. It was about 30% water.” Well, at least it hydrated him…
- I published this tidbit on my Facebook page; forgive the repeat, if you’ve heard it already. My four-year-old, Fiala, ran a fever for about 48 hours. No other symptoms. I saved a (gluten-free) cake pop from a little friend’s Saturday birthday party. I took Audrey, but Fiala missed out, though the mother of the birthday girl sent us home laden with a goodie bag. Fi keeps asking to have the cake pop, which she calls a “lolly cake”. At the best of times, her body has a hard time handling sugar, so I told her she has to wait until well after her fever is gone. “Why do you have a fever?” I asked her. “Because my germ-fighters are working HARD!!” she said. “And what makes germ-fighters weak?” I asked. “Sugar!!!” she replied with no hesitation at all. I was proud of her for remembering all my indoctrination, even if she still wants the cake pop.
I haven’t hiked in months. I have recently, though, started jogging around my neighborhood. I love getting out in a natural setting, and my feet take less of a beating on dirt than on asphalt. But, I had to drive to my hike-location-of-preference. Now, my jog starts roughly fifteen minutes after I roll out of bed, no car needed. Less travel time to get out means I can wake up a half-hour later, spend more time hoofing it, and get back home earlier.
Previously, I was mostly concerned with arriving back home before my hubby left for work. However, we were having trouble with our littlest one, Fiala, getting out of bed early and wreaking havoc while my husband was getting ready for work and I was out hiking.
We live in a fairly hilly location, which is unusual for Phoenix; most everywhere around here is flat. So, even though it’s on asphalt, I can still go for a challenging, scenic run, with virtually no traffic, which is almost as good as hiking. Well, actually, saying “run” is pushing it; a slow trot, alternating with fast walking. I hope to work up to a run. Right now, I’m at about a 14 minute mile, which is lame, even though I can blame some of the slowness on the hills. I can, right??
According to Map My Run (which is REALLY frustrating to get a handle on; it took me more than an hour to create a map of my little route, and that’s after I viewed the tutorials), my route is 2.79 miles with an overall 3% grade. It would have a greater grade percentage if I disincluded the flat part that starts and ends my run, but I guess that would be cheating.
I have to fight my dreams about this whole running thing, though. Well, not really. Sort of. What I mean is that I’ve been out jogging a grand total of about seven times now, and I already have lofty visions of finally completing a marathon. That’s not a BAD dream, certainly; it’s one I’ve had for years. But, I tend to count my chickens before I even have a henhouse, let alone eggs, if that makes sense. I start thinking in my head about how amazing it would be if I completed this project — any project — that I can actually start coasting on my dreams instead of actually DOING them. And, I tend to get discouraged when things don’t turn out as rosily, as rapidly as I’m dreaming.
So, like virtually everything else in my life, this is a plot to strengthen my character, as well as my physical endurance, and hopefully to lose enough fat that I don’t have to pick out my outfit by how well it hides the various bits of chub surrounding my middle section.
Right about this time every year, there gets to be a tight feeling in my chest, which I have to fight for… oh, about five months. It’s a bit like claustrophobia, but it’s more along the lines of heat-o-phobia. Truly, I despise summer in the desert. Some people really love the heat and thrive in it. That, however, is not me. I have worked hard to find things to appreciate about the place I live so that I’m not living with a crappy attitude and wishing to be elsewhere, half of my life. My husband is a native, his dad is a native (which is REALLY rare; the Phoenix area is a valley of transients)… My mom and stepdad are here, my sister and brother-in-law are here, my niece is here… plus, we truly have the most amazing church where we both serve and are fed. Not to mention my husband’s fabulous job that he’s been at for 19 years. It’s highly unlikely that we’ll be leaving any time soon. I have come to value the benefits to living here, apart from the weather, which, any time I really let myself think about it, I could pretty easily conjure up some tears. I mean, I really despise summer in the desert.
But, I will not dwell on the endless 110°+ days; I will, instead, continue to look for things that make the desert tolerable or even pleasant, and fight the heat-o-phobia and its accompanying tears which threaten to steal my peace.
Several things have made the transition into summer easier for me this year:
- There have only been a handful of 100° days so far. Today, as I write, we have been the beneficiary of some low-pressure front, or something like that, and the temps are supposed to top out in the 70s. Yesterday’s high was 80°. I know that God doesn’t allow these sort of days solely for me, but I like to think of them as Him giving me a bit of hope and reprieve, letting me know that I can make it, and that it’s not ALL oven-like misery.
- I have been waking earlier. Much earlier. A couple of weeks ago, I started hiking a mountain — hill, more like it — that is nearby. I wake at 5:30 a.m., am on the trail by 6:00, and home by about 7:15 just in time to help my hubby gather his lunch for the day, his to-go mug of coffee, and to kiss him goodbye. The first day I did the early-morning hike, Martin said, “You could do that every day and it would be OK with me.” Other than a spunky 2yo who sometimes wakes way too early and won’t stay in bed, and has the power to open the fridge and take out everything she can’t eat and have a surreptitious binge whilst Daddy is in the shower and Mommy is not yet home, it works really well. And, I have the great feeling of becoming fit and healthier, as well as breathing in the cool, early morning air and being there to (almost) greet the sunrise. I do a balloon-shaped trail that is about 3.6 miles, savoring the temperatures that are in the 60s or 70s… It has been wonderful. And, somehow, it’s SO MUCH EASIER for this night owl to roll out of bed at 5:30 for a hike, instead of, say, the stationary bike.
Our backyard is now over five years old, and the pathetic little saplings have matured and grown into a lush (for the desert) green oasis. This may not seem like much, but when I’m surrounded by hot, brown, and dry, it’s such a blessing to be able to walk into my back yard and breathe in a little bit o’ GREEN. The trees are now climbable, and one of them even has a little rope swing attached. We have two medium (but lovely) fruitless pistachio trees and two large tipu trees. Wonderful.
- My garden. Again, it’s only May, and I got it in a good month later than I should have, so who knows how fruitful it will actually be. But for now, it’s medicine to my soul to push the dirt around and coax and nurture little plants into being. Usually once a day (at least), I pull out my kneeling pad and just sit on it, looking at the garden. Even when there’s nothing to do in it, I feel good looking at it either up close, or just glancing out the window while working in the kitchen. Over the weekend, my hubby installed soaker tube for the irrigation and put up a little wire fence to keep our dog (and small children) from romping through the tender growth. He proclaimed, “Now it looks like a real garden.” I concur.
My friend Kim and I took our collective nine kids out for a hike on Friday on a trail only ten minutes from my home, but which I’d never previously explored. Fiala, at 2.5 was the youngest. She is a more willing hiker than Audrey, aged 5, but her legs are shorter. They tired at about the same point, halfway into the hike, which totaled about 1.5 miles, maybe a bit further.
Both Kim and I decided that we wanted to go back to the park, sometime in the near future. So, I went this morning. I’m not an early bird, by any stretch of the imagination, but I was motivated. I was up at 5:30 and on the trail at 6:00. I hiked about 3.6 miles in an hour and 20 minutes. Lots of altitude changes, but when I got back home, I checked the map,
and as best as I can tell, even though I picked the highest trail, I only gained and lost an altitude of about 500′. Felt like more than that. Like a LOT more than that. Clearly, I need to hike more. As I walked in the door at 7:30 this morning, I could smell and hear the coffee percolating, and my hubby was wielding a spatula over the stove, trying to shoo our waking children back into their bedrooms. :) It made me feel good.
- I am daily checking my garden for sprouts, even though it’s only been six days since I planted it. :) I’m eager. I also started some tomato seeds in homemade/improvised seed trays, and will do some more today — either tomatillo or chile pepper. The rest of my compost simply won’t be ready by the time I’m ready to plant some more, so we’ll be getting some bags of manure from Home Depot. I’m trying not to feel like a composting-failure by resorting to the home improvement store, but at least they’re only $0.85 each, so it’s not like I’ll be throwing more money at the garden than is justified. I tend to get really gung-ho about a project, drop a hundred of our non-existent dollars on it, then abandon it. I’m rather hedging my bets this time — investing as little money on the garden as possible, both so that if it fails, we’re not out a big chunk of change. Also, the less money I spend, the more profitable the garden is. I’m also trying to resist the urge to quit before I’ve even really begun, when seeing some head-high plants from a friend’s garden. A friend here in the Phoenix area. However, I won’t. I won’t quit. I have spent a lifetime of giving up on things when it appears that I won’t (or even possibly won’t) TOTALLY EXCEL, and that’s a really, really, really bad habit, which I’m ready to kick. It’s hard, though.
- I love the Body of Christ, the local church. The guy who is leading the small group I attend — actually, he’s sort of leading it, but more like mentoring another guy into leading — is going to be moving next Saturday, and mentioned something about it on Thursday. Another guy — who has only been attending for 4-5 weeks — pipes up, “I have a trailer!” and in a few minutes, the two had made plans for the Trailer Guy to help the Moving Guy move. The whole thing made me smile. I guess if you’re not part of the Body of Christ, you rent a U-Haul. :) Along the same lines, my hubby is helping the daughter of a friend from church (she goes to our church, too) move today. Even though I’m sure he’ll get a sore back and a few trips to the chiropractor out of it, I’m happy that he can help… We’ve been on the recipient end of the Body of Christ SO OFTEN, and it’s right and good to reciprocate.
- Small Fiala update: She had her half-day last week. She is officially 2½. We are cautiously testing bananas this week. So far, so good. I wouldn’t even have tried bananas, but last week, she woke early, climbed up to the fruit basket on the countertop, and helped herself to a banana, with no apparent ill effects. But, some of the foods we’ve tested this year have appeared safe for a week or even two, before she absolutely exploded in a rash. That’s what happened with corn. We are only able to test one new food every 3-4 weeks or so, because it takes anywhere from one day to two weeks for a reaction to show and then an additional week or two for her to heal enough from the bad reaction to get her back to a “baseline” from which we can test another food. So far this year, she has failed carrots, corn, potatoes, and coconut (and all other palm-related foods & products). She has only had a successful trial on eggs, which have made a delightful addition to her still really, really limited diet. I’m starting to consider another trip to the allergist.
- So now, today, it’s not yet noon, and I’ve hiked 3½ miles, had eggs and coffee with my hubby, made pancakes for my children, and blogged. :) Laundry, ironing, baseball, starting another tray of seeds, and preparing to lead worship in SuperChurch tomorrow will take up the rest of my day. It’s one of those days which I call to mind when I’m talking to someone I haven’t seen in a while, and they ask, “What’s new?” Well, nothing is new. Nothing at all, really. It’s not really an eventful life I lead, but it’s still a good one.
This last week, the acacias started blooming. For me, that’s always the mark of springtime.
Here in the Sonoran Desert, the three major flowering trees are the sweet acacia, the palo verde, and the ironwood. They bloom in that order: sweet acacias in late February or early March, palo verdes in March-April or so, and ironwoods in late April or early May, usually. Acacia blooms are dark orangey-yellow little ½” puffballs, and have a very distinct, cloying, powerful scent. Palo verde blooms are usually (depending on the variety) bright, bright yellow, blanketing the entire tree with delicate flowers. Ironwoods are more subtle, a very light lavender color, among the grey-green leaves. Neither palo verdes nor ironwoods have much scent.
I cannot stand the scent of the acacia. Ugh. When I was a kid, my mom took my sibs and I, weekly, to the Phoenix Library. Each branch of the library is named after a native plant. We usually went to the Acacia Library. In the springtime, I remember taking a giant gulp of air while still in the car, then sprinting up the acacia-lined path to the entrance while holding my breath, to avoid smelling the nearly unavoidable fragrance.
I didn’t know until now that the palo verde is an invasive species in many places, worldwide, especially Australia. I was about to post something preachy about landscaping with only native species, but remembered that, while my front yard has only native plants, my backyard has several non-natives, including the Australian tipu tree.
My fave desert tree is, by far, the desert ironwood, olneya tesota. Part of it is just because I like purple; so many native plants around here bloom yellow and only yellow. Part of its appeal is just because I like the shape of the tree. And, I think it’s cool that the wood is so beautiful, often burled and two-toned, not that I think one should go around chopping down ironwood trees. The wood is so dense that it will sink in water.
A couple of years ago, I looked into visiting the Ironwood Forest National Monument, established by Clinton only days before he left office. There wasn’t much info on it, especially on the hiking trails I sought, so I called the Tucson field office of the BLM, which administers it. Well, it turns out that the Ironwood National Monument is a MAJOR illegal immigration corridor, and I was vehemently advised to stay away, especially as I had small children. Golly. The field officer blamed the situation Clinton, who had established the monument, but had given no funds for its development or protection. Hm. I still want to go, but maybe we’ll wait a few years.
There were no vehicle breakdowns, no relationship troubles (spouse or child), no scheduling snafus, the weather was beautiful, the locations magnificent… even our dog did well. It was, my dear hubby and I agree, the best vacation we’ve ever had as a family.
We went: First to visit my husband’s brother in Pagosa Springs. Then, to a USFS cabin north of North Fork. Then, to a VRBO rental just outside of Dolores, into whose 400 s.f. the owner graciously let us cram our seven bodies.
It’s just hard coming back to 110° in the desert. Oh. And, I broke my camera. By sitting on it. While trying to restrain my 20-month-old from giddily flinging herself into the rushing Piedra River. (Toddlers: Gusto without wisdom.) So, 3/4 of my pictures were taken without a viewer: I cracked the LCD screen, and there is no manual viewfinder on my camera. I thought, “I’ll blindly snap away, and hope I can crop some fairly decent pics from them.” Well, 90% of the “blind” pictures are still wonderful, which is humbling, as apparently, my skill in picture-taking is really the “skill” of the camera. Or something.
The pictures for most splendid and picturesque part of our journey – the Dunton Road, which takes one along the West Dolores River, and over 10,000 feet in elevation to the foot of the Lizard Head Wilderness, with magnificent views of the backside of the mountains of Telluride — were taken with my decrepit mobile phone, as I forgot my camera. Ugh.
I’m sure I’ll be posting more, but here are a few pics for now:
During the trip, we saw three beavers, a cow elk, several deer (including the tiniest fawn ever seen by my husband or me), I identified three new birds for my list (with very little actual birding time), we absolutely SOAKED in the Spirit during the after-service worship-and-ministry time at my brother-in-law’s church… we discovered that Fiala would very happily live in any body of water, and that 4yo Audrey is now a nearly-perfect little traveler; she must be made to live outdoors. Grant is still the best hiker of the bunch. We picked out a campground for a future visit (Mavreeso Campground, along the West Dolores River– site 6). We successfully made a number of hikes and excursions, though none to the numerous National Parks and Monuments in the area.
And… though we purposed to take no calls while on vacation, we did make a few exceptions, and gained the very exciting news that there is a publisher VERY interested in the book I ghost-wrote. They said they’d give a reply (to query letter & first chapter) in 4-6 weeks. It took 10 days. Then, they asked for the whole manuscript, and upon receipt, called back in 24 hours to say they want to talk more. :) It’s the publisher that was at the very top of our list of preference, and that is very encouraging, though absolutely nothing is for certain yet.
So. I hope y’all will forgive my absence. Before I left, my friend Kathy encouraged me to, “Soak up every delightful moment, and let Jesus minister to your every molecule.” That’s what happened. It was lovely. Bless God and the restorative properties of His creation.
When my family moved here from Illinois in the mid-’70s, my mother would often pull out a map and decide where we would take a day trip, often based on the interest-factor of the place name, and if it was by water. To her consternation, she quickly discovered that in Arizona, just because it says “river” on a map does not actually mean there is water at that location. “River” almost always actually means “DRY river BED.”
Most rivers in Arizona are dammed for hydroelectric power and/or for reservoirs to supply water to cities. While I’m grateful for the liquid that streams from my kitchen tap, I do feel like this is, somehow, wrong. The natural desert landscape is robbed of the too-few streams and rivers, making riparian areas few and far between, destroying habitat for flora and fauna. I’m not such a tree-hugging type that I’m saying that animals are better than people and we’d all serve the earth much more effectively by dying. However, it does seem that we could do a much better job at living symbiotically with the desert environment.
All of that serves to elevate my enthusiasm when I find a desert location that has a naturally-occurring source of actual water.
This current winter/spring has been the wettest that I can recall in at least six years. Its overcast right now, in fact. Phoenix has gotten around four inches of rain in 2010 so far (many locations are closer to 5″), which may not sound like a lot to Midwesterners, but when you consider that we usually (in non-drought years) get only about 7″ for the year, four inches in barely over two months is a whole lot.
On Friday, I took the kids out for a drive/hike that we’ve done before, off of Castle Hot Springs Road, which arcs north of the Carefree Highway, east of Wickenburg, and west of Lake Pleasant. I was hoping that in addition to the vivid green desert hills, there would be some actual flowing water in the creek to which we were heading. Now, I already knew that “my” secret spot holds a spring-fed perennial creek, so I was pretty certain that there would be water, as most springs are dependent on the availability of groundwater, which would obviously be greater after an abundance of rain. But, in the desert, one never really knows. (Plus, the last time we were there, a couple of years ago, there had been some illegal gold-mining activity, likely using cyanide, leading to some unnaturally bright-orange rocks and no life in the water.)
There WAS water in “our” creek. In fact, there has been so much water that we didn’t recognize our spot until driving past it three times. The teensy meadow of years past, small but startling in the midst of its brown and dry surroundings, was no longer there. (Scroll down to photo #7 on this post from Sept 4, 2006 and photo #6 on this post from Feb 5, 2007, for a shot of the meadow) In its place was evidence of a grand torrent, five or six feet high, which reshaped the little valley, leaving a preponderance of boulders, removing the topsoil, and carving a new path for the stream that did remain. Also gone was a GIGANTIC cottonwood; a very large stump was there, as well as a sapling — its child, no doubt. Also, some work had been done on the dirt road (for erosion control, it appears), moving its path a bit.
I know it doesn’t appear like much, there on the right, and it still looks dry and deserty — and of course, it IS the desert. But, down in it, it does not seem dry at all. All along the drive, I kept exclaiming how lush and vividly green everything was. There is an abundance of green undergrowth — desert grass and teensy flowers, which will likely all be gone by May or June, burnt off by the searing summer heat.
In addition, Castle Hot Springs Road crosses both Bitter Creek and Castle Creek at many locations. Most of the time, this just makes for bumpy, sandy going but on Friday, there was water at every crossing — too many to count! Water crossed our paths at least 15 or 20 times in the space of about 15 miles. Normally, even in wetter months, the creek might splash away from your tires once or twice. Three or four times, if you drive the route a day or two after some rain. On Friday, every single gully, wash, and creek bed had running water in it.
The pic above looks mostly south over Bitter Creek. On the right-hand side, just around the bend that you can’t see, another, smaller creek converges with it, to the east of the road, heading south and west from Bitter Creek. I cannot find a name for that little tributary on any map. One time we went and found some mining claims posted, which identified the area as “Hold-Up Creek” but I can’t find anything to substantiate that name, either. So, we just call it Bitter Creek, though most of our time was not on that creek itself.
The good news is that the creek appears to have recovered from the cyanide use from a couple of years ago, somewhat to my surprise. I’m sure the abundance of water has helped that recovery.
We spent about three hours, exploring and playing, sort of hiking. We didn’t get further back than 1/4 mile or so. The creek was quite overgrown with prickly bushes and trees, and as it was entirely boulder-strewn, I had to carry Fiala, my 16 month old baby, in my arms. She was not a fan of this sort of hiking, and screamed pretty much the whole way, both from wanting to GO on her own, and from the occasional scratch. :( That was surprising; she’s usually a fabulous trouper.
In the past, we have hiked the creek back to its source, roughly 1/2 mile. I was a little bummed out that we weren’t able to do that. Next time. “Next time” will be fairly soon, actually, as I’ve convinced another homeschooling mom to accompany us, with her two boys in the near future.
According to the topo map (Garfias Quad — but at about 33.9669°N 112.4444°W, not exactly where that link takes you), there is another 1/2 mile-or-so trail that leads to a spring (St. Anthony Spring), only 1000 feet or so from where I parked. I think we’ll try to find that, next time. Also, next time, maybe there will be more flowers; it’s about 2800′ elevation at that location, and not much was yet blooming, even though my title suggests it.
Good thing I looked a little more closely at the e-mail with all the info for today’s field trip, in order to tell a new friend the details this morning; I thought it was to be at Spur Cross Regional Park. It wasn’t; it was at Cave Creek Regional Park. That would’ve stunk to have gone to the wrong place!
The event didn’t start until 1:00 p.m., and I decided we’d get there early and do a little hike, and eat lunch beforehand. At least one other family was going to arrive early, as well, but we ended up being the only one, which, actually, was just fine with me.
Before we set out from the truck, I asked the kids if they wanted the longer one-mile hike, or the shorter. I shouldn’t have asked; as expected, only Grant wanted the longer one. If we didn’t have an agenda that day, Grant’s vote, along with mine, would have overruled the other three. We’ll have to come back for certain and do the one mile loop, and soon. Still, it was worth it. However, it’s actually a bit of an overstatement to call it a hike. It was more like a mildly hilly ¼ mile stroll on a dirt path.
It has been literally SIX YEARS since I’ve seen the spring foothills so green (the pics below do not do them justice; it is SO GREEN). In the Sonoran Desert, January showers bring March flowers, and there will be a LOAD of them in a few weeks, as both January and February have been awash with wonderful rain.
Today, there were just a few flowers in bloom: some desert bells, Mexican gold poppies, a few desert marigold, and an even fewer brittlebush. The hillsides of the park are covered in brittlebush, so when they bloom, it will be absolutely garishly bright yellow. I can’t wait.
Also, this was the first hike in which Fiala was walking. I brought along a sling, to put her on my back, but she would have none of it. She didn’t want to hold anyone’s hand or anything. Even Audrey remarked on her baby sister’s eagerness and toughness. That, too, makes me look forward all the more to really start hiking in earnest again.
Along the way, we saw a lovely female cardinal, who serenaded us as we walked along.
Here’s some park scenery:
Although I’m philosophically opposed to there being playgrounds in parks primarily used for hiking, my kids sure aren’t:
There was a good turnout for this ranger talk, which was supposed to be on desert survival, but my boys (and myself) were hoping for something a little more gritty than, “If you get bit by a rattlesnake, get to a hospital ASAP.” Still. Ranger Jim was very nice, and it was interesting, if not particularly informative (other than the nice section/diagram of a desert solar still).
About a third of the way into the talk, I had to slip up and whisper to Grant that he had answered more than his share of questions, and to give everyone else a chance. (I was very proud of him for being mindful of that the rest of the time.)
I’m probably biased towards homeschooled kids, but I think all the kids did a very admirable job of eagerly both asking and answering questions. However, a slightly awkward hush fell over the group when Ranger Jim asked if anyone knew how long scorpions had been around. Later, my daring friend Allison said that she very nearly hollered out, “Um, you’re talking to a group of young earth creationists!” But, she was saved by a little girl who wisely answered, “As long as the animals have been!” And, yes, that is true, no matter which way you look at it!
Earlier today, I posted, asking for questions. I meant to start answering them tomorrow, but here I am at home — Martin has Ethan at his Little League game, and I’m home with the rest of our kids, two of whom are sick with high fevers. (Grant got up to 104.1° last night! Scary. I had him in the bathtub at 3 a.m.) Martin is actually playing tag-team with my Mom and Stepdad, because he had to leave early to go to kinship, and they arrived late, after work, and will stay for the end and bring Ethan home. Anyways. All that to say that I have a rare evening in which I can blog.
Daja asked first, about the love story of my husband and me, but that’s a long story, even for me! So, I’m giving that some thought about how to best answer it.
So, for now, I’ll start with the (somewhat) shorter ones!
I want to know what the weather is REALLY like in AZ. We’re considering moving, and we need to be somewhere it doesn’t rain all the stinkin time. I’m not sure I want to smolder in the 150 degree heat though! So, how bad is it, really? Does the vast amounts of sunshine and lack of rain make up for the heat?
Well, it depends on what you prefer. We basically have six months of summer, from mid-April to mid-October. Yesterday was the first day of 100° temps. I heard on the news last night that the Phoenix area averages 89 days per year of 100+° temps. I’m surprised it’s that low, frankly. And, we only average 7.5″ of rain each year. We can often go for 2-3 months between rainfall, then have a big storm that violently dumps 1.5″ in a short time. I used to hate it here. I really, really hated it. It’s brown, hot, and dry. I love the green, rolling rain-soaked hills, punctuated by 90 ft high leafy trees, with their roots soaking in a sparkling stream, all of which are in short supply in Arizona. However, I don’t hate it any more. Actually, I’m liking it better and better in Arizona, each year. We have a vast complexity of life, both flora and fauna, and such striking vistas, and wide, clear blue skies… Plus, travel an hour, maybe an hour and a half, and you’re in the mountains and cooler temps. I have lived in the heart of the city (or near it), and on the fringes, and I like it on the fringes. The scenery is much better. :) In cooler climes, folks have to stay indoors nearly all winter. Here, you have to stay indoors nearly all summer. The summer days are literally like a blast furnace. It’s too hot to roll down the window of your car as you drive. It’s too hot for a walk, even at night, where it can stay over 100° even past 10:00 at night. The norm is to travel from air-conditioned house to air-conditioned car to the pool or air-conditioned other place, and back home. Kids don’t play outside in the summer, unless you have a pool. (We don’t.) Or, if I do send the kids out to play, it’s early in the morning (like around 8:00) and they have to come in 20 minutes later, because they’re drenched with sweat because it’s already over 100° at 8:20 a.m. So, you have to get really creative with indoor things to do for kids here in the summer, especially if you aren’t into video games and vegeing out in front of the t.v., like we’re not. But… there are lots of things to like about the Phoenix area. There are TONS of hiking opportunities, all year ’round, both within the city, and in the area around it. As far as cities go, it’s really not claustrophobic; it’s spread out (which is both good and bad — urban sprawl and all that). We have lots of amenities, some great sports teams, a fairly good arts scene, pretty much any store you could ever want — I hardly buy anything online except for books! I don’t need to, because it’s all right around the corner. Right now, it’s uber-affordable to buy a house in the Phoenix area! The market has tanked, which is great for first-time home buyers. Some friends of mine had a house next door to them just sell for $45K. Granted, it’s an extreme fixer-upper. But, you can get a nice house for $100K right now.
So, that’s more than you asked, as I review your question, which was ~ahem~ just about weather. Sorry about that.
Did you plan to have “all” those kids? Lol! I only put it that way (being a mom of 4 so far myself) because that’s the way people ask me!
Sort of. Before we got married, my husband and I agreed we wanted 3-5 kids. But, then, I had ONE, and suddenly extended grace to all the parents of only children, of whom I had previously stood in judgment. It was hard, and I was done. Fifteen months later, unplanned, we got pregnant with Grant. That was a shock, but mostly OK, especially since Grant was such an easy baby. Fifteen months after Grant was born, I got pregnant with Wesley, which was NOT OK. I wept. I didn’t understand what God was doing to me. I was very ill, and getting worse. Not many people knew about it, except my husband, because I was embarrassed, because “all” I’d been diagnosed with was chronic fatigue syndrome, moderate depression, chronic bone pain, intersticial cystitis, and a few other things, but none life-threatening. Plus, in the 2.5 year search I had undertaken to find out what was wrong with me, I had twice been called a hypochondriac by two different doctors, which was humiliating. And, I had been raised with a paradigm that Christians didn’t get depressed, so I felt guilty or something for that part of it. So, I didn’t share much with others about how poorly I was doing. And, at the height of me feeling like I was barely keeping my nose above water with regards to my self, let alone my husband, my 1yo and my 3yo, I got pregnant. I really wept. I had to make a conscious decision to trust God because this was a child He had decided to give us, so I had to trust that it would be the right child for our family, and would have a special, specific purpose in our lives. As it turns out, Wesley’s diagnosis of celiac disease is what led to my own diagnosis of the same, and I really feel like Wesley saved my life, because celiac disease was the core of my problem, and all the other health issues I was having were symptoms of celiac disease. So… After I got healed up, and once my three boys grew just a little, I started wanting another child; our family did not feel complete. For a while, Martin wasn’t willing; my health was a great concern to him; he didn’t think I could handle another child. But, eventually, he said to me with a grin, “Wanna try for #4?” And, we did. :) When Wesley was 4.5yo, Audrey was born. Then, it felt like we had a set of siblings with the three boys, and little baby Audrey dangling off at the end, with no sister, nor any sibling really close in age to her. So, we decided to try for one more child, and for the first time, were really hoping for a specific gender — a girl. And, God said, “OK!” and Fiala was born when Audrey was 2.5yo. So…. it was like all the kids were planned, then they weren’t, then they were. :D And in the end, we’re back to our pre-marriage plan of 3-5. It is uncommon to have five children and not be Catholic, or LDS, or QF, or have it be an accident. But, five it is, all planned for, more or less, and we’re really pleased with ‘em!
In May 2007, my kids and I accompanied my mom, aunt and uncle to the North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park. We came back with such a glowing report that my hubby said, “I want to go, too!” That was totally fine; I could visit the Grand Canyon every weekend and not grow tired of it. My only concern, cheap-o that I am, is that it is really expensive, especially if you’re staying in a cabin. We used to be a camping family that roughed it every vacation, but recently, my husband decided that he was tired of camping. It is a lot of work for him, setting up camp… kind of like it is a lot of work for me, preparing beforehand, and spending seemingly all day in the camp kitchen. For me, the extra work of camping is worth it, because you’re so connected with nature, and can vacation forever on minimal $$ — gas is the biggest expense while camping. But, for my hubby, the experience now trumps nearly everything else. Still, our funds are not limitless, so I, the planner, have to do stuff on the cheap, while accomodating my dear hubby. And, the Grand Canyon is not cheap. But, the experience is worth it.
Our “worth it” experience started before we actually got into the park. Driving south on the road from Jacob Lake to the North Rim, we saw…
…a herd of bison. Bison! I think I saw bison in the wild at Yellowstone when I was a kid, but it’s been a long time. There were probably about thirty of them.
After our long day of travelling, we got to our cabin. I had decided, after our last stay, that it would be worth it to spend the comparatively few extra bucks to stay in the roomier, nicer Western Cabins, which we did. I did feel a wee bit badly, because there was technically a maximum of five people per cabin, and we’re a family of six… but we have long crammed extra bodies into hotel rooms, etc., to save money, and I figured we could do it here, too. So, Martin and I had one queen bed, and the three boys were spread out the short way over the other bed, and Audrey was in the playpen. I’m not sure what we’re going to do next year when we have another baby, but that’s another story…
Here’s the four kids on the front steps of the cabin.
It’s always my goal to be able to bring the kids on a hike that is perhaps a bit of a challenge, but that gets them out there… Otherwise, they would spend the whole day playing pinecone baseball.
Not that pinecone baseball is bad; they had a fantastic time searching for bat/sticks and figuring out what kind of pinecone sailed further, and squabbling over which tree was second base. But, though not quite as dramatically, it reminds me of the C.S. Lewis quote:
“… Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.”
In other words, kids sometimes need to be encouraged to participate in something grander. I hope this is making sense. I am ALL FOR digging in the dirt and picking up sticks and finding unusually colored pebbles. But, my kids would be satisfied with doing that at the rim of the Grand Canyon and not ever actually experience the Grand Canyon.
So, I was the Official Hike Encourager. I kept them around a mile, so no one would get too exhausted. I wanted to help them enjoy the Grand Canyon, not kill them with it.
Fortunately, throughout our vacation, there were plenty of short hikes.
Here’s on the walk out to Bright Angel Point:
And, more goofiness by the cabin (Ethan is posing — don’t worry):
In our eight-day trip, we ate out ONE meal. Part of this was to save money, and part of it was because of our weird dietary restrictions, we’re hard to feed, and lots of times, it’s just not worth the stress. It’s hard to accomplish this when staying in the cabins if you want a hot meal, as there are NO grills by the cabins, and portable stoves are not allowed. So, we had cold breakfasts and lunches, and travelled down the road a bit to a picnic area to cook our dinners on the Coleman stove. Well, actually, we had one cold breakfast. The first one, I knew there was a good breakfast buffet in the dining room of the lodge, with enough gluten-free options. So, that was our one meal out. The corner table is my favorite… Here’s the view from where we were sitting:
Here’s my dear hubby, Martin, outside our cabin:
And… we took a drive out to Point Imperial:
After the short walk out to the viewpoint, we started the Ken Patrick Trail, headed southwest. We knew we wouldn’t make it very far — we hiked out a half-mile or a little more, before we turned back — but as it’s right along the rim, it’s a very rewarding, scenic hike. And, it’s a well-marked trail that’s good for kids, with not too much elevation change. The only drawback was that streches of the trail were lined with thorny locust bushes, so you really need to be wearing long pants, and be prepared to carry your small children through those patches.
The boys also completed the Junior Ranger program (again). Both Ethan and Grant had advanced a level, so they got new patches, which I will sew onto their floppy hats. Well, I’ll sew Wesley’s, too, even though it’s the same patch as last year… That is, when we can find his hat. We looked fruitlessly for it before we left.
Also, we attended the “star party” — after 9:00 p.m. or so, a couple nights a week, they turn off all the lights in the lodge and on the canyon-facing patio, and a guy sets up a super-powerful telescope. Martin and the boys got to see a fantastic view of Jupiter, but by the time I got there (after Audrey was in bed), the scope was pointed at a star cluster, which was cool, but not like a planet. But, we learned where Jupiter is right about now. And, we learned to identify the “Teapot,” an asterism inside Sagittarius, and from whose spout spews the “steam” of the Milky Way. Very cool. (Obviously, we also learned what an ‘asterism’ is — it’s a mini-grouping of stars inside of a larger constellation, like the Big Dipper is an asterism inside Ursa Major.)
The thing that pleased me most about the Grand Canyon portion of our trip was that Martin really loved it. In fact, he wants to return next year, and spend three nights, instead of two. I’m going to try to get a rim-view cabin, though that’s another $10/night, and they’re frequently booked 18 months in advance. But, if we do next year like we did this year, staying mid-week, I think my chances of finding a rim-view cabin higher.
As great as the North Rim of the Grand Canyon, when the vacation was all over, we all decided that it wasn’t our favorite part of the trip. We all favored the next location, the unlikely-sounding Podunk Guard Station outside of Bryce Canyon National Park, proving that money can’t buy you love a good vacation experience. But, that’s the next installment.