The American Church — Take Her? Or Leave Her?

Whilst tag surfing, I came across a well-written, thoughtful, (though perhaps unintentionally imflammatory) post on the state of the American church today.  I have given a lot of thought to the topic over the last year or so, when it dawned on me that not everyone has the great church-experience that I’m privileged to enjoy every Sunday.

The following is derived from my last comment on the above-mentioned post;  it was really too long for a comment;  I should have just written this here and linked it back.

It seems to me Greg, the original poster, is not anti-church, as some of his commenters seem to believe.  He’s pro-New-Testament, Jesus-based church, which is *not* what most of the American church is right now.  What he’s pointing out is that the state of most of the American church is a tragedy.  He’s not suggesting that everyone leave their churches, he just posted some thoughts on why that’s happening.  He’s suggesting that we stop ignoring the problems and do something about them.

Greg thinks (as I do) that, at the heart of it, American Christians, by and large, have it all wrong, expecting the Church to meet all their needs, and be about them.  That self-centered, “I deserve it” attitude is extremely pervasive in American culture, and totally opposite of Biblical teaching. 

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I was reading in Ephesians this morning, where Paul says that the Christian lifestyle is ALL for the glory of Jesus.   In 2:21-22 he mentions the purpose of the church, saying that it is “growing into a holy temple in the Lord; in whom you are being built into a dewlling of God in the Spirit.” (Emphasis mine.) IOW, it’s a work in progress.  It’s ongoing.  I believe that, this will be the case until the day of Jesus’ return.  We won’t see the fulness, the perfection, of the Body & Bride of Christ (the Church) until He comes back. Earth is never going to have the perfection of Heaven until that time.

It also caused me to think about my marriage:  I shudder to think of what I was like when I married at age 21.  Full of myself, thinking I was way-more mature than I actually was, thinking I was way more right than I actually was…  Yet, my husband loved me, and together we’ve grown and matured, and together we’re way better as a couple, and as individuals than we were 12.5 years ago…  Much of this, for me personally, has been accomplished by his very gentle and loving correction, and me responding positively to that, seeing my error, and turning from my flawed ways.

Such must be with the Church today.  We’re not as great as we think we are.  We need growth and maturity.  We need help.  But, Jesus is not rejecting His Bride because we’re flawed.  No, He’s drawing us closer, pulling us into Him, leading us on to maturity in Him.

I think some would see the Church, and say, “It has too many problems. Heck with it,” and walk away.  But that would be akin to my husband divorcing me, say, a year or two into our marriage because of my own immaturities.  By the grace of God, he didn’t.  And I think we need to extend more grace to the immature Bride of Christ, the Church, and realize that, according to Paul in Ephesians, it’s a process.

We can’t expect some sort of perfect, flawless Church, rejecting anything less than that.  However, we can’t be content w/ flaws and immaturity — we have to take the initiative to grow further into Him, and closer with each other.  The church can help with the first, but I believe it’s vital to the second; we can’t grow closer to each other without each other.


About Karen Joy

I'm a partially-homeschooling mother of six -- 3 boys ages 19, 17 and 15 years old, and three girls: 11, 8, and 3. I like birding, reading, writing, organic gardening, singing, playing guitar, hiking, the outdoors, and books. I very casually lead a very large group of homeschooling families in the Phoenix area. I have a dear hubby who designs homes for a local home builder and who is the worship pastor of our church. I live in the desert, which I used to hate, but now appreciate.

Posted on May 3, 2007, in Christianity, God/Christianity/Church, Introspective Musings, Marriage. Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. You’re right – that was a great post! I think your comments on it are great too! This is something that my husband and I struggle with. I can’t remember if I commented about this here so forgive me if I’m repeating myself but my husband and I are in the process of trying to plant a church and it’s been a struggle for many reasons (which I won’t get into here). We’ve talked about whether or not it’s the right time and maybe finding a church to go to but things like this stop us from going. Churches these days don’t really seem to be about true worship, discipling, and reaching out to the lost. It’s all about entertainment, attractional ministries, and how to keep people happy. We just can’t seem to make ourselves be a part of that. This is a huge struggle for us because we want to be making a difference – we want to have a church that’s different but with all of the things going on for us it’s been really hard.

    Thanks for passing on this great post!

  2. Very good post, Karen. Thanks for the reminder and the encouragement. 🙂

  3. Maybe this applies….I didn’t get to read the article through….but an associate pastor at the church we are going to left his post and the church by writing a “I thought this was a good time to leave…no hard feelings….see you around” e-mail. No lie.

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