In which I consider monetizing my blog (and other things)
- Fiala, aged 16 months has started calling out to one of us with some urgency: “Daddeee? Daddeee?” and when the person for whom she calls answers, “Yes, Fiala?” She screws up her face and says, “Ummm….” like she can’t remember what she was going to ask. It’s hilarious.
- Fi is back on Septra. I finally talked with Dr. Elizabeth on Saturday, and she said that it’s likely that Fiala is just susceptible to staph, not that it was still lurking in her body, as I had feared. (Lurking after 5 weeks of strong antibiotics…) She’s been on the abx for 2.5 days, and while she’s not clearing as quickly as I had hoped, she is a bit better. Elizabeth prescribed 3 weeks of medication, but said we can stop after a minimum of 7 days, if she’s clear. It’s looking like she’ll be on it for more than a week. 😦
- I had to stop giving guitar lessons to a young woman from church. Baseball (which now takes up 3-4 nights per week) is just too frequent to squeeze in lessons, plus kinship, plus mundane things like grocery shopping and laundry and dinner. I told her we could start back up in June, and suggested that she takes some inexpensive class lessons through our city, which I hope she chooses to do.
- I’m giving a number of baby things away on Freecycle. It’s a bit sad. Poignant. All the Avent bottles and breastmilk pump, a little food grinder, a diaper bag, a couple of remaining maternity things… Martin and I are still both of one mind on this: We will do nothing permanent to stop conception, so we realize that there remains a possibility of baby #6. However, we think it unwise (for a number of reasons) to try for a sixth baby. Part of me hopes that God will overrule our choices and I’ll just get pregnant… I’m certainly not fearful of being pregnant at age almost-37. However, I think that there is wisdom in not adding to our family, and I take it very seriously that my hubby and I are in agreement.
- I’m still working on the edit/re-write of a friend’s book. It’s going well, and we’re both really liking the results. It was my hope for her to read the refashioned words, and say, “YES. That’s exactly what I was trying to say.” So far, that has been the case, 99% of the time, which is a huge encouragement for me. I just wish I had more TIME — like two dedicated evenings per week, instead of 30 minutes here, two hours there…
- Speaking of “working,” I’m considering… monetizing my blog. I regularly have offers from folks who would pay me X amount of dollars for a link, or a promo, or an ad. Up to now, I’ve refused all such offers. But, doing dishes last night, I thought, “If my blog only made $20/week, that would be $1000 per year, which could regularly pay for family trips.” If it made slightly more, I could take the kids to visit extended family, which we’ve only done ONCE in 15 years. (Edited to clarify: We have gone on one vacation-style trip, specifically planned to visit relatives. I went on an additional trip on the spur of the moment, to go to my paternal grandpa’s funeral, and during that trip, did visit with many family members. AND, the trip that my husband and I took for our 10th anniversary was nearby to my maternal grandparents’ home, and we spent several days visiting with them. So, that’s more like three trips.) Make even MORE and we could go on a month-long “field trip” to New England, visiting historic sites. That is a very attractive motivation for me. Last year, we weren’t able to have a vacation at all (outside of a 3 night stay at my parents’ cabin), mostly because of finances. (Edited to clarify: We actually did have a week-long camping trip planned, but I threw out my back very badly, and we were unable to go. After I recovered, we ended up visiting my parents’ cabin, rather than rescheduling the whole trip… so, although finances did play a role in our decision, it definitely wasn’t the only factor.) I’m always amazed to go onto blogs that appear more professional than mine: ones that look extremely sharp, well put-together, with all the bells and whistles, with a little link to their book on the right-hand column… then I see their visitor count, and it’s half of mine. I’m NOT all about attracting readership; I’ve made no effort whatsoever to boost visits, and part of me is really repulsed by the idea of trying to “win” readers and/or place ads on my blog. However, I think that as I have garnered nearly a half-million (!) hits without even trying, it shows that (I think) with some careful marketing, I could make some income. Even a very modest income (and I think $20/week is very modest) would be worthwhile. I think that it could also be a big timesink and money-waster, so I would need to be very prudent in my choices. I’m still not sure what I’m going to do yet… but the thought of being able to take trips that I’ve heretofore only dreamed about is very attractive. I spend too much time dreaming and hoping, and too little time in action to make the dreams come true.
Posted on March 9, 2010, in Babies, Blogging, Encouragement, Family, Guitar, Introspective Musings, Medical Stuff, Pregnancy, Random Stuff, Sports Stuff, The Dear Hubby, The Kids, Travelling, Writing. Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.